Resource Author Francisco R. Higueras
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There is a category of people who can be called married singles. These are the people who once upon a time where happy with each other, got married, but did not live happily ever after. Instead the demands of daily life, building careers, raising children became so consuming and stressful that they neglected to make meaningful time for each other. The married couple continued to handle their daily living demands however the emotional connection between them suffered. Gradually they grew further and further apart, each feeling very alone. The married singles lifestyle had crept softly into their life and they accepted it as that is the way it is.

You need to trust me

There is no way that you can blindly trust. Trust gets rebuilt over time. It is based on being true to ones word, having actions match words, not having secretive phone messages or absences. Your task is to trust what you observe and comment behaviorally on that while staying away from interpretations and accusations.

For Harry it happened when his job started to involve travel. He had been unhappy for a while but had not shared with his wife how he was feeling. While having a drink at his hotel a woman started a conversation with him. It felt wonderful to be talking and have someone listening to him. In another marriage it was Mary who got into an affair. Mary had a co-worker with whom she enjoyed talking and they became good friends. The emotional connection is what she loved. After a while the attraction to each other grew and they became involved. Gwen found her emotional connection in chat rooms.

Affairs are a jolt to a marriage. There generally have been cover-ups, deceitfulness, and lies before the couple starts dealing with the trauma of the affair. The task ahead for these married singles is to decide what they want to do about their marriage.

Everything is fine because I have ended the affair.

Unfortunately it is not so simple. For most couples it takes some real work to learn to re-connect with each other in a caring and loving way. Frequently marriage counseling may be necessary in order to learn new communication skills and ways to emotionally connect with each other.

Couples who desire to stay together can get through an affair if they genuinely want to re-connect with each other. It will take time and a willingness to put effort into rekindling their love

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